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How’s She Doing? Round 3 (Almost 4!!)
Chemo #4 is on Monday. I can’t believe that this day is already so close. When life is lived while broken down into week cycles (chemo week, recovery week, “normal” week), it tends to move pretty quickly. I’ve been very impatient during the last two weeks since I now feel like the end is in sight. It occurred to me recently that I haven’t really left the Jackson-Metro area since November (with the exception of a trip to Eupora at Christmas) – I’m beyond ready to recover and feel like I’m off my leash! Chemo #3 was very much the same as #2. I feel a little boring saying the same thing over…
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No Really, I’m Good
By popular demand, we’re doing another tank order. Link to order is below. Thanks! Tank Order Form Link
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How’s She Doing? Round 2
2 down. 2 more to go. To the halfway point. Number three is next week. The second treatment has mimicked the first in many ways. The infusion itself was uneventful and smooth. I felt completely normal for the first 2 1/2 days, and then fatigue started coming in waves, peaking on the evening of day 5 and totally gone by day 8. No painful mouth issues, but my taste fluctuated over the first 14 days. Appetite held steady. A rash or two, and some skin dryness. But, this cycle was different in one major way…I lost my hair. It started coming out on day 15. Though I tried to be prepared for this,…
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Cast Iron Magnolia. Who Knew?
When I originally tiptoed into the world of blogging, it was at the urging of a couple of friends as a way for me to share recipes. When setting up the site, I wanted a name that was fun and perhaps a little meaningful. Cast Iron Magnolia popped into my head and wouldn’t go away. The name felt a little silly or melodramatic to me at that time, but obviously I went with it. The reference to Steel Magnolias cannot be missed, and that was intentional. Southerness would ooze throughout my posts – people needed to know what they were getting into.[ I also want it to be noted that this…
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How’s She Doing? Round 1
Chemo, round 1 complete. 25% done. 3 more to go. Details about how I have felt directly follow. If you’re more of a casual reader (or really don’t need this many details about my life *insert winky face emoji* ), follow this link to skip to closing (*insert thumbs-up emoji*). Infusion day – anticlimactic (as expected). The drugs take about 2 hours give or take to infuse. I get asked often about a port, but I don’t have one and won’t get one unless something unforeseen happens. I have strong, healthy veins and am prayerful they stay that way. I felt great post-infusion (thanks to a big ole bag of decadron). Ate well.…
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Back to a New Normal
Our 2016 ended with the news that even though my tumor was found early (stage 1), I will still require chemotherapy to reduce my risk of recurrence. Many factors weigh into this decision, and I am not entering into this flippantly. My mantra lately has been “temporary discomfort for long-term peace of mind”. The kids go back to school tomorrow, I will go back to my real office, and Ashley’s home office will be a bit more quiet and productive for him. Life is going to keep moving. I feel really good. Everything will be just the same, yet nothing will be just the same. I have a joyful heart, but…
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It’s Time for an Update
Hello friends. I realize that it has been a while since I’ve posted any updates. There are many reasons for this – my brain being foggy from anesthesia being the main one! I’ll jump right in, and we’ll see how this goes 🙂 Timeline: Nov. 4 – diagnosis Nov. 7 – met with surgeons and decision for double mastectomy and reconstruction made Nov. 14 – surgery at Women’s Hospital Nov. 15 – discharged from hospital Nov. 15 – 21 – a complete blur (my apologies if you spoke to me or visited during this time!) Nov. 22 – follow-up appointment with general surgeon – pathology back from surgery – Grade…
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God is Sovereign – Still
I have breast cancer. The cancer was found by the miracle of a screening MRI – which almost wasn’t ordered – which was scheduled even after my mammogram in September came back clean – I am 37 years old, most people my age haven’t even had a mammogram yet. I’m by no means happy about this, but my heart cannot quit being thankful that this was found now instead of years from now. What we know now is that I have a 1 cm tumor that is grade 1 ductal carcinoma. I also have two very small spots on my other side that can’t be seen on ultrasound to biopsy. My…
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Strength in Weakness
I haven’t done this in a while. I wouldn’t say I’ve been avoiding it, but honestly, I haven’t had any desire to write. I personally hit a wall after Mom’s surgery. Tiredness hit, the weight of all of this reality hit, the adrenaline wore out, and my children ran out of their reserve to share mommy. But now, I’m here. Today is a small step just to fill you in on what’s been happening since May. Mom’s mastectomy surgery on May 5th went very smoothly. Recovery went very smoothly as well. She went back home to Eupora about a week after surgery and life was trucking on. Home health came…
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Stone-Washed Stockings and My Homeroom Mom
When I was in the third grade, my mom was the homeroom mother for my class. I never questioned this at the time, but looking back, I wonder how on earth she made this work. Mom’s job was running a daycare out of our home. There weren’t lunch breaks or days off, or any of those other things that allow working-moms a touch of breathing-room. So, how she put together parties for our class remains a mystery (not to mention before Volunteer-Spot and email and Facebook and texting…). I tell you this to set the stage for a memory that has grown in significance to me as I journey along this…